Human beings are gifted with an extraordinary potential to manifest their
personal visions of success. When we think and act in ways that harmonize
with those visions, we enter what I describe as our successability zone: a
mindset of confidence, faith and action that magnifies our ability to be
successful.
Here are seven keys to help you access your successability zone. As you
read, jot down ways in which you could apply each one to your objectives.
Make a note of actions that could help you move from your current position to
where you want to be.
Discover the Natural You
One of the most frequent questions I receive is: “How can I find out what I
should really be doing with my life?”
The answer lies in discovering your life purpose and aligning your actions with
that purpose. A life purpose statement reminds you why you are living on
earth, and what you are naturally inclined to create. When you live in harmony
with your purpose, your actions feel satisfying and effortless. Each moment
fills you with energy and feelings of success. You don’t need to obtain a
purpose; you already have one.
You can begin to uncover your purpose by noticing your feelings and
inclinations during various activities. Begin by asking yourself: What activities
feel the most rewarding? What fills me with unrelenting joy?
Recall hobbies, jobs, and projects that you've enjoyed the most. Note primary
interests from your childhood. Which ones made you feel joyful and fulfilled?
Look also for recurring interests and ambitions. What do your favorite
activities and most memorable experiences have in common?
When you live and act in harmony with your purpose, you will believe in your
ability to succeed. You will express your natural talents and deepest values.
Turn on a Laser Light
Your purpose can be expressed through many different missions. So, it is
important to decide exactly what you want to accomplish, and write a plan to
achieve it. Form the intention to reach your goal. The moment of intention will
produce a powerful shift toward manifesting that goal. Focus your mind like a
laser on your desired outcome.
Create the feeling that you’ve already achieved what you want, and feel
grateful for those accomplishments. You will attract what you are grateful for.
You will achieve what you accept and believe with feeling. Combine faith-filled
thoughts and positive emotions to produce feelings of gratitude for your
success. Your thoughts of gratitude will expand in your consciousness and
manifest in your life situations. Starting today, shine a laser light of gratitude
on the objectives you want to achieve.
Build a Compelling Door
There isn’t always a best way to succeed. However, there is a compelling
way. You will never be successful by accepting someone else's opinion of
what should be important or enjoyable to you. You must define and attract
your own vision of success.
Milton Berle said, "If opportunity won't knock, build a door." Build a door that
looks so inviting that you would do whatever is necessary to unlock it. The
most compelling ventures will be those that you create for yourself. If the door
is compelling, the effort needed to unlock it will be rewarding.
Get Your Entry Keys
Preparation, planning, and patience will unlock your compelling door. These
keys must be paid for in advance. Worthwhile accomplishment is possible,
but it requires sacrifice. It is built from knowledge placed into focused,
sustained action. Sustained action provides real-world experience, the most
valuable kind of knowledge.
Absorb every thing you can possibly learn about your area of interest. Make a
commitment to become highly skillful in your chosen field. Henry John Heinz
said, “To do a common thing uncommonly well brings success.” Growing in
knowledge and skill each day will bring tremendous results over time.
Find Your Way Around the Rocks
Staying in your successability zone requires resolve. It has been observed
that in the confrontation between a stream and a rock, the stream always wins
through persistence. There will be rocks in your stream of life situations, and
your resolve will be tested.
You will create one of two things in your mind: limitations or solutions. People
with success-ability create life-enhancing solutions for their customers, clients
and themselves. They find their way around temporary obstacles after others
have given up. When “rocks” appear, accept them as a challenge, move
around them, and continue forward.
Get a Prize Everyday
Great missions are not achieved; they are lived daily. Success is a journey --
a process of self-discovery. Feel the reward of each small achievement.
Fulfillment does not arrive in the future; it is a way of being in each moment.
Enjoy today’s rewards. If you set your sites only on a future benchmark for
success, you might arrive there with the sudden realization that all you've
lived for is accomplished. The future will look empty. Keep developing new
goals and missions that will express your ultimate purpose throughout life.
However, enjoy the present moment completely, because that is where life
and success are always experienced.
Leverage Your Successability
Find a mentor who believes in your objectives. A coach or mastermind group
can support you for taking the actions needed to reach your goals. When you
run out of energy or lose your direction, they can help you get back on track.
You’ll be pleased with the forward-driving momentum made possible by a cocreative
relationship with someone who believes in you!
These keys, when applied, will lead you into your personal successability
zone. Look deeply into your heart and mind.
Ask yourself: What will my successability zone look and feel like? What gifts
will it bring? What actions could I begin taking now to manifest those gifts?
You can reach your highest potential with the willingness to grow little by little
and by taking progressive actions each day. Begin accessing your
successability zone now, and enjoy the journey as well as the rewards.
About the Author: © 2004 by Steve Brunkhorst. As a highly successful
therapist and consultant, Steve has helped hundreds of individuals to achieve
their goals and reach their highest potential. He has led performance and
skill-building workshops in both educational and corporate settings. Steve
coaches people to help them revitalize their inner spark, access their natural
talents, and design strategies to reach their personal and career goals. He is
also the editor of Achieve! 60-Second Nuggets of Inspiration, a popular
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